Okay so let me start out with what this is.
This is my life. Real stories and day to day interactions of a college student. My life is not perfect. I make A LOT of mistakes. I am 21 years old, a female, and very involved with a fraternity on campus. The names in this will be changed but everything else in this will be true. For me this will end up kind of like a journal. I will vent.. a lot. So if you have input, feel free to throw it in! But please don't bash me or my life. I am not perfect and I realize the life I live isn't necessarily "ideal" or for everyone but this is college and this is what everyone else tries to keep hidden under their facade. Hope you enjoy. :)
I've learned on thing in college!
Quit worrying about stupid things.
We have four years to be irresponsible.
Relax!
You will never remember classes.
But you will never forget the time you "wasted" with friends.
So...
Stay out late!
Go out on a tuesday when a paper is due on wednesday.
Spend money you don't have...
Drink till sunrise!
Take Chances.
Tell the truth.
Say no!
Fall in love.
Date someone completely wrong for you.
Get to know some randos.
Make new friends.
Sing out loud!
Laugh.
Cry.
Apologize.
Tell someone how much they mean to you.
Tell a jerk exactly what you think.
Kiss slowly.
Forgive quickly.
Play hard to get.
Let go of what you can't change.
Life life!
Have no regrets!
Because work will never end...
But college does.
The people:
Michael: An unofficial ex that lived with me for a few months. He is also one of my very best friends. He is in a pretty unstable marriage now to a friend of mine (Kayla). He is in the military and truly an alcoholic.
Kayla: Michael's wife. She has a daughter from her previous marriage and is bisexual.
Andrew: In the fraternity. I "talked" to him for awhile in the fall of '10.
Tucker: A freshman we met through parties at my apartment. He was an "uhmfriend" of mine for awhile.
Alan: One of my closest friends. I tell everything to him. I had a crush on him for awhile but realized it was just apart of growing closer to a guy. He is president of the fraternity and questionably gay.
Adam: Part of the fraternity. He is the one you party with.
Kaitlyn: She was church friend years ago but is now one of the girls at the fraternity house. She can be pretty two faced but is a lot of fun so she's kind of a toss up.
Emma: Used to be one of the girls at the fraternity but is not around anymore. She is literally insane and pathological liar.
Mary: She's our token black girl around the fraternity house. She is kind of slutty but a good friend.
Jenna: She dated/dates (depends on the day) a brother (Brad) for awhile. She is fun sometimes but extremely overbearing. She is loud and obnoxious most of the time.
Hayley: New this year to the fraternity girls and very young. She graduated high school in the fall and started college in the spring. We have corrupted her but she is truly a sweet girl and a GREAT friend.
Allie: She used to be one of my best friends. She is very competitive and so we ended up having a huge falling out. We started our friendships over about a year later and we are good now just not as close.
John: He pledge our fraternity this semester and is gay. He's a great friend to me.
David: My best friend in this state. Has been for 7 years now and will be until the day I die. We fight a lot but we are always always there for each other. He is dating Jackie.
Jackie: David's girlfriend. Sweet girl.
Jason: A boy I met at my 21st birthday party. I hooked up with him and he fell in love with me. It was kind of weird for awhile but we are friends now and he is dating a good friend of mine, Morgan.
MaryJane: Jason's girlfriend. Also used to be best friends with Michael but they recently had a huge falling out.
Paul: He is our DJ. An old hook-up of mine too. He has an on again off again semi-relationship with Hayley as well.
Joe: Really cute Italian boy. We hooked up once and still flirt alot. Part of an amazing band that is starting to get big.
Chris: A brother of the fraternity. In a band as well. Good kid but kind of annoying.
Stephen: Band member with Joe.
Dan: We met him a spring break and he dated Mary for awhile before she cheated on him.
Cassie: She quickly became a good friend of mine. We are a lot alike. Only child syndrome, red hair, etc. Oh and we have the same name! But she can also be very selfish and bratty.
Mike: Adam's little brother.
Josh: Mike's best friend who comes when he visits.
Brad: Jenna's on again off again. Him and I talked for awhile and every once and awhile that comes back up. I care A LOT about him. He is military.
Derrick: Used to be a brother in the fraternity but is now just a guy that hangs around.
Charlie: A guy I have a semi-relationship. The first boy who has a chance to break my heart other than Michael ever. He is broken and we are pretty much the same person but I care more about him than I will ever admit to someone in real life.
Taylor: My "guide". She is who I go to when things go wrong. She is amazing. A little older than us but not quite a "mom" figure. More of the older sister I never had.
Jacob: Charlie's best friend. Super crazy guy. So much fun.
Amanda: My crazy roommate. I can't stand her a lot of the time but we talk a lot for that being said.
Alicia: My female best friend from back home. She is engaged (I'm a bridesmaid!) and I will call her husband just her husband.
Cameron: Alicia's husbands best friend back home. He is kinda in love with me.
Faith: Another of my very closest friends from home.
Cole: The best friend I thought I'd ever have. He is my David from childhood.
Robert: A friend from home. I kinda had a crush on him.
Maddie: A friend from school back home. We weren't close when I lived there but are pretty good friends now.
Kim: Cole's mom. She is also like a second mother to me!
Moose: Best friends with Andrew. Regular at the frat castle. Failed one night stand. Basically my soulmate but I don't like him!
Jesse: A brother at the fraternity. The "whore" of the house. Pretty much always fucked up even when he's not! :)
Roxy: Moose's girlfriend. One of the fraternity girls. Really good on the stripper pole!
Rando: A friend you'll only hear of occasionally so I'm not gonna bother with a name.
Brother: Any particular brother of the fraternity that I don't tell enough stories about for it to matter.
Kayla: Michael's wife. She has a daughter from her previous marriage and is bisexual.
Andrew: In the fraternity. I "talked" to him for awhile in the fall of '10.
Tucker: A freshman we met through parties at my apartment. He was an "uhmfriend" of mine for awhile.
Alan: One of my closest friends. I tell everything to him. I had a crush on him for awhile but realized it was just apart of growing closer to a guy. He is president of the fraternity and questionably gay.
Adam: Part of the fraternity. He is the one you party with.
Kaitlyn: She was church friend years ago but is now one of the girls at the fraternity house. She can be pretty two faced but is a lot of fun so she's kind of a toss up.
Emma: Used to be one of the girls at the fraternity but is not around anymore. She is literally insane and pathological liar.
Mary: She's our token black girl around the fraternity house. She is kind of slutty but a good friend.
Jenna: She dated/dates (depends on the day) a brother (Brad) for awhile. She is fun sometimes but extremely overbearing. She is loud and obnoxious most of the time.
Hayley: New this year to the fraternity girls and very young. She graduated high school in the fall and started college in the spring. We have corrupted her but she is truly a sweet girl and a GREAT friend.
Allie: She used to be one of my best friends. She is very competitive and so we ended up having a huge falling out. We started our friendships over about a year later and we are good now just not as close.
John: He pledge our fraternity this semester and is gay. He's a great friend to me.
David: My best friend in this state. Has been for 7 years now and will be until the day I die. We fight a lot but we are always always there for each other. He is dating Jackie.
Jackie: David's girlfriend. Sweet girl.
Jason: A boy I met at my 21st birthday party. I hooked up with him and he fell in love with me. It was kind of weird for awhile but we are friends now and he is dating a good friend of mine, Morgan.
MaryJane: Jason's girlfriend. Also used to be best friends with Michael but they recently had a huge falling out.
Paul: He is our DJ. An old hook-up of mine too. He has an on again off again semi-relationship with Hayley as well.
Joe: Really cute Italian boy. We hooked up once and still flirt alot. Part of an amazing band that is starting to get big.
Chris: A brother of the fraternity. In a band as well. Good kid but kind of annoying.
Stephen: Band member with Joe.
Dan: We met him a spring break and he dated Mary for awhile before she cheated on him.
Cassie: She quickly became a good friend of mine. We are a lot alike. Only child syndrome, red hair, etc. Oh and we have the same name! But she can also be very selfish and bratty.
Mike: Adam's little brother.
Josh: Mike's best friend who comes when he visits.
Brad: Jenna's on again off again. Him and I talked for awhile and every once and awhile that comes back up. I care A LOT about him. He is military.
Derrick: Used to be a brother in the fraternity but is now just a guy that hangs around.
Charlie: A guy I have a semi-relationship. The first boy who has a chance to break my heart other than Michael ever. He is broken and we are pretty much the same person but I care more about him than I will ever admit to someone in real life.
Taylor: My "guide". She is who I go to when things go wrong. She is amazing. A little older than us but not quite a "mom" figure. More of the older sister I never had.
Jacob: Charlie's best friend. Super crazy guy. So much fun.
Amanda: My crazy roommate. I can't stand her a lot of the time but we talk a lot for that being said.
Alicia: My female best friend from back home. She is engaged (I'm a bridesmaid!) and I will call her husband just her husband.
Cameron: Alicia's husbands best friend back home. He is kinda in love with me.
Faith: Another of my very closest friends from home.
Cole: The best friend I thought I'd ever have. He is my David from childhood.
Robert: A friend from home. I kinda had a crush on him.
Maddie: A friend from school back home. We weren't close when I lived there but are pretty good friends now.
Kim: Cole's mom. She is also like a second mother to me!
Moose: Best friends with Andrew. Regular at the frat castle. Failed one night stand. Basically my soulmate but I don't like him!
Jesse: A brother at the fraternity. The "whore" of the house. Pretty much always fucked up even when he's not! :)
Roxy: Moose's girlfriend. One of the fraternity girls. Really good on the stripper pole!
Rando: A friend you'll only hear of occasionally so I'm not gonna bother with a name.
Brother: Any particular brother of the fraternity that I don't tell enough stories about for it to matter.
